Lesson One

Lesson 1: The Secret to a Mind-Blowing Experience Starts Before Anything Happens

Welcome! I’m giving you Lesson 1 for free because even this single step will bring new warmth and excitement to your relationship.

Let’s start with a simple, honest question: What would you give yourself if you had to rate your oral skills on a scale of 1 to 10? A "1" means you aren't ever able to finish the job because he stops you. A "10" means he is almost passing out due to the next level of ecstasy you’ve taken him to.

Let me guess: You give yourself a 6 or 7?

Every time I’ve ever been with a girl who gives herself a 6 or 7, she has really been a 3 or 4. Why is that? Most girls who fall into this category say the same thing:
They don’t really like doing it so they don’t do it very often. How often? It’s usually a handful of times per year (or less). However, the men they are with have consistently told them that it “feels amazing” which leads them to believe they are kind of good at it.

There are 2 takeaways here. First, you are never going to get good at anything that you only do a few times per year. Second, all men tell women it feels amazing to encourage them to do it more often.
If you fall into this category then you NEED my help. If you give more frequent blowjobs then you’re part way there.

The First Big Secret: The experience starts before it actually starts.
You let your husband know that you would love to give him a blowjob. If you only give blowjobs a few times per year, what message does that send to your husband? The message he receives is that you hate doing it but you begrudgingly will because it’s his birthday. How is he supposed to enjoy something that he thinks you hate? He feels bad and guilty about subjecting you to that. Changing the dialogue in his head removes those thoughts from the experience.
It’s the easiest thing in the world to do. All you have to do is say 1 of these 2 phrases:
”Joe, I’m feeling frisky tonight. Sit back and let me do the work.”
"Joe, I don’t know what’s gotten into me but I really want to give you a blowjob right now.”

If you’ve never said anything like this before you can dull it down. Conversely, you can swap out some dirtier words if you like.

Whatever you say, say it with a slightly naughty smile. Place your hand on his lower abdomen when you say it. Stare straight into his eyes when you say it.

His logic brain will be telling him, “I’m confused. I thought she didn’t like doing this?”
His lizard brain will be saying, “OMG! She wants to do this! Just let her!”

If you’ve never done this before he will likely be shocked, potentially speechless, and he might start stuttering. You may have to grab his hand and guide him to wherever you want to do the deed because he may be in a slight daze.

What this does? This removes all doubts that this is a bad experience for you. He thinks you’re actually enjoying it! That means he can relax and focus on the pleasure 100%. In fact, you actually make it sound like he is doing you a favor. That’s how badly you should act like you want to do this. Act like it’s the best present he could possibly give you and it will completely change everything.

Want to know the amazing thing? Enthusiasm is contagious. Your husband will feel wanted, appreciated, and closer to you than ever. If he is feeling that way towards you how do you think you’ll feel towards him? That’s right. You will also feel wanted, appreciated, and closer to him than ever.