How Did This Develop?

It started back in college. I hooked up with a few girls who just weren’t good at giving blowjobs. I’d try to help in the moment. I’d give them a few tips and guide them a bit. Eventually, I started being blunt, “You’re not great at this, but I can help you get better.”

Surprisingly, a lot of them were open to it. What started as casual feedback turned into actual lessons. Word spread, and girls started coming to me. Some were very direct, others more subtle but they were all looking for advice. By the time I graduated, it had developed into a kind of tutorial. I was doing one-on-one teaching and even a few small group lessons.

I’m not saying I’m proud of all of it, but here’s what I learned: most women want to be better at this, and most guys wish their partners were better, but no one really talks about it. It’s awkward, and there aren’t many real, judgment-free resources out there. Don’t get me started on the porn epidemic. You’re not going to learn anything healthy from watching Debbie Does Dallas.

Fast forward to now: I’m married, and I haven’t done personal lessons in years. But the problem is still out there. I keep hearing the same stories…wives who hate giving blowjobs, guys who get one on their birthday and that’s it. That’s where this site comes in.

If you want to feel more confident, make your man happy, and even enjoy the process yourself, you're in the right place. This isn’t about pressure or shame. It’s about giving real, honest guidance to women who want to improve, explore, and have more fun with their partner.